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Bill of Rights

A Bill of Rights matters when childhood taught you that other people's comfort automatically outranked your safety, needs, feelings or reality.

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ACAD Bill of Rights

  1. I have the right to say no.
  2. I have the right to say, “I don’t know.”
  3. I have the right to detach from anyone in whose company I feel humiliated or manipulated.
  4. I have the right to be treated with dignity and respect.
  5. I have the right to make mistakes and learn from them.
  6. I have the right to be wrong.
  7. I have the right to make my own choices and decisions in my life; I do not have to feel guilty because someone does not like what I do, say, think, or feel.
  8. I have the right to grieve any actual or perceived losses.
  9. I have the right to all of my feelings.
  10. I have the right to feel angry, including towards someone I love.
  11. I have the right to change my mind at any time.
  12. I have the right to a spiritually, physically, and emotionally healthier existence, though it may deviate entirely or in part from my parents’ way of life.
  13. I have the right to forgive myself and to choose how and when I forgive others.
  14. I have the right to take healthy risks and to experiment with new possibilities.
  15. I have the right to be honest in my relationships and to seek the same from others.
  16. I have the right to ask for what I want.
  17. I have the right to determine and honor my own priorities and goals, and to leave others to their Higher Powers.
  18. I have the right to dream and to have hope.
  19. I have the right to be my True Self.
  20. I have the right to know and nurture my Inner Child.
  21. I have the right to laugh, to play, to have fun, and the freedom to celebrate this life, right here, right now.
  22. I have the right to live life happy, joyous, and free.
Source: Boundaries-Handout-1.pdf — ACA Bill of Rights, p.16 (held in the TToB source library).
Choose one: Which permission would create the most breathing room in your life this week?