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Bill of Rights
A Bill of Rights matters when childhood taught you that other people's comfort automatically outranked your safety, needs, feelings or reality.
ACAD
ACAD Bill of Rights
- I have the right to say no.
- I have the right to say, “I don’t know.”
- I have the right to detach from anyone in whose company I feel humiliated or manipulated.
- I have the right to be treated with dignity and respect.
- I have the right to make mistakes and learn from them.
- I have the right to be wrong.
- I have the right to make my own choices and decisions in my life; I do not have to feel guilty because someone does not like what I do, say, think, or feel.
- I have the right to grieve any actual or perceived losses.
- I have the right to all of my feelings.
- I have the right to feel angry, including towards someone I love.
- I have the right to change my mind at any time.
- I have the right to a spiritually, physically, and emotionally healthier existence, though it may deviate entirely or in part from my parents’ way of life.
- I have the right to forgive myself and to choose how and when I forgive others.
- I have the right to take healthy risks and to experiment with new possibilities.
- I have the right to be honest in my relationships and to seek the same from others.
- I have the right to ask for what I want.
- I have the right to determine and honor my own priorities and goals, and to leave others to their Higher Powers.
- I have the right to dream and to have hope.
- I have the right to be my True Self.
- I have the right to know and nurture my Inner Child.
- I have the right to laugh, to play, to have fun, and the freedom to celebrate this life, right here, right now.
- I have the right to live life happy, joyous, and free.
Source: Boundaries-Handout-1.pdf — ACA Bill of Rights, p.16 (held in the TToB source library).
Choose one: Which permission would create the most breathing room in your life this week?